The Game...The Blog; A 2 Part Harmony

Here we go, this is a topic that has alluded me for quite some time. I seem to have a hard time understanding how do people attract the things in life they want. Now this has led me to many different answers and opinions. Many say that the things that you are deserving of or meant to obtain will be yours in time. I take this more of a vague absolute kind of answer. I have also gotten led to the acclaimed book and movie "the Secret." Now I agree with the thoughts behind this partially. The idea of if you harness positive thinking, and optimism, then only positive and good things with find you. All humans at some point harness this positive energy, but what sends them off track, to find negative findings? Now some people have that something about them that obviously attracts them to people. But they i've heard many time over, "everything thats shines surely isn't gold." Why is this not adopted and used in this scenario? Why is it that many people always go for this? Now before you read this and assume "he must be weird or etc." I am surely comfortable being me, and am extremely confident being me. I am actually almost an asshole at times. I am quite positive i could make almost any woman happy, in fact i'm positive i am the type of man that most women pray for. But the fact of the matter is, The world isn't happening at the register in Burger King, and you damn sure can't have it your way. Because if it was every women would want me, better yet, every women would deserve me HAHA! That' such a conceited statement...but Hey It's my life and i won't foil myself.