Burning bridges before benevolent buerecrats.

Burning bridges before benevolent bureaucrats.

Who says, you need to keep people connected for the sake of networking? Some people aren't even worth that. I am often reminded that my cheerful and accepting nature invites too many unsatisfactory
or unsuccessful people I to my life. I must learn to not only be
careful with the people I attract but also the people I already know.

Now I have been thinking. A lot about my most recent Facebook purges and
I have come to the conclusion that I have been going about it all
wrong. Instead of removing people I no longer or never speak with I
should be removing those I don't communicate with but also the ones I
see no benefit from. Whether it be monetary or emotionally. Why waste
the space, no two pieces of matter can occupy the same space. This
means a rotten apple, I.e. Undesired acquaintance, is squandering a
space for a potential ripened apple.

My point is merely this; we must learn to more properly appraise our
emotional real estate. We can't keep thinking everyone will always fit
into our Infrastructure. We must properly value or time and space. Only
then will we be able to properly cultivate and raise our self worth.

-Robin J. Haymon

Dive in to Defeat, Despair...Devolution

Do we ever truly know when it is time to kneel? Can we accept defeat in the midst of our true goals? Many will immediately take negative thoughts from the Idea of "give up." When we all forget that we as people constantly give in to many things throughout our day. So why should it be any different when it comes to our dreams. Sometimes it is not only wise, but very human to step back and re-analyze our attack. Defeat in the words of any man, will denote some level of success. Why is it we fear such an elementary principle? We are conditioned to never fail. To always push for success. What is missing in this teaching, is that failure is not only inevitable, but necessary. Success is to measured by the amount of failure. But i fear this measurement is used improperly. How many failures to a success only measures how quickly one managed to stray from instinctive reasoning.

The True Idea of Success can only be attributed to how many failures before the success. I fear we are evolving past this reasoning. When has anything good every been made from the first attempt? Countless attempts at every great invention of our cultures has always been vital. It gives us a since of progression. It reminds us of our humanity, in that we are truly mere men. How can we expect to find a Utopia in a perfect world? We must Build, test, Re-build, and retest until we find Such perfection. And when we find it, we will be left only the option of testing that Utopia, until it fails, so we can find a truer utopia.

The Moral is that we must not fear our defeats. Defeat truly and undoubtedly builds character. Don't lose hope if perfection isn't knocking on your door today. You must learn to entice Perfection. This deity is only mused by our sacrifice; Defeat is our only offering. Learn to devolve...simplify...